The First Days with Your Puppy: 7 Things You Should (and Shouldn’t) Do

A calm start is the foundation of a strong bond

The first days with your new puppy are magical — but also overwhelming. Your pup is discovering a whole new world, and you’re trying to make the right decisions while avoiding mistakes. You’re searching for a balance between raising your dog, enjoying the process, and simply… surviving.

To help you bring calm and structure into those early days, here are 7 things you should do — and a few you should hold off on.

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1. DO: Create a safe space

A crate or puppy pen can work wonders — not as a punishment zone, but as a safe retreat. Place it in a quiet area, add a blanket and a toy, and let your pup explore it on their own.

Don’t:

Let your pup roam the house without a defined rest zone. It often leads to stress and more potty accidents.

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2. DO: Build a predictable routine

Dogs love predictability. Take your pup outside at set times, feed them on a rhythm, and create mini-rituals for sleeping, playing, and walking.

Don’t:

Try something different every day “to see what works.” Puppies don’t need variety — they need clarity.

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3. DO: Observe your pup — don’t control them

Watch for body language:

• Yawning, lip licking, looking away = early stress signals

• Gentle wiggling, relaxed posture = calm and curious

Don’t:

Constantly correct or dominate. That only builds frustration and damages trust.

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4. DO: Keep introductions calm and limited

One new person per day is more than enough. Let your pup lead the pace. No crowds, no mass cuddling, no playdates yet.

Don’t:

Drag your puppy everywhere “to socialize them.” Overstimulation leads to fear and confusion.

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5. DO: Use a soft voice and gentle touch

Your pup is learning what your tone and body mean. Be soft, clear, and consistent. Show leadership through presence.

Don’t:

Scold them for biting or accidents. Your pup doesn’t know the rules yet — they’re watching your reactions to learn.

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6. DO: Give yourself rest too

Puppies sleep a lot — and so should you. Take time to breathe, reset, and stop overthinking. You don’t need to be perfect — just present.

Don’t:

Overperform. Your puppy doesn’t need to sit, stay, and fetch on day 3. Calm energy is the real secret to progress.

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7. DO: Ask for help when in doubt

Every pup is different. What works for one may not work for yours. If you’re unsure, overwhelmed, or just want some guidance — reach out. Asking for help is a sign of love, not failure.

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Want to make sure you’re starting off right?

Book a 1-on-1 Puppy Consult. In 45 minutes, I’ll help you:

• Make the right choices

• Build calm and confidence

• Create a custom plan for you and your pup

Online or in person — €50

Book your session here

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Questions? Doubts? Just reach out.

At Connected Paws, it’s not about being perfect — it’s about building trust.